Hello world, This is Big Country just giving his thoughts on life , business ,and etc. See people don't sometimes respect and understand what i go thru personally and mentally. I have been in this business for 8yrs. Everybody has their opinion about me but i guess that how people be. It bothers me alot about the disrespect and lack of business ethics men and women have in this business. This is my hustle, company or whatever, but this is my way of make ends meet. So, i get pissed when someone treats this business like a game or don't take this business serious. No calls no shows, ladies getting cold feet, I know it happens but some people need to have some simple common respect. I not in the business to chat with ladies for months, days, hrs, or even a minute about business and when it comes time to shoot.......A lady get cold feet or worst, just do no call at all. I had girls call me and tell me how much they want to work with the company. I mean, telling me this for months or weeks. When the time come up for the shoot, ladies can't go through with it. I respect if they had a reasonable excuse to cancel or you atleast call days in advance. But, they do this day of. i seen ladies do it in the middle of a shoot. Ladies , even men, especailly Black folk, can be some of the most disrespectful fuckers in the game. We as producers go through alot to get a shoot done. From finding the ladies to the final product. The worst part of it is the attitudes, from the ladies who has done it,, to the ladies that are new. I Sometimes think that many of these ladies don't have a clue or/and don't care what it takes to do this from the mental aspect to the physical. To the outside world , i'm cheating on my wife or I'm a sex addict. But this is work. A shoot that don't happen is lost of potential money and lost time. My Time is money so i'm not wasting any time. What is really crazy is.......Majority of these ladies that do no shows or get cold feet contact me. I guess they want to chat with someone in porn , say they was that close to doing a video. Well, i would had prefered not knowing any of these ladies. If they wanted to be Facebook pals that's fine, but don't get in my lane unless you want to drive. You feel me! I only want to work with ladies who Know they want to do this not a think can do this . But what's funny is the girls whom has done the business and shot wih major companies is alot to deal with and some times worst then the newbies. But, that's another blog. The lies about me, rumors, and some of the things have been said about me are mostly lies, or misrepresented fact by ladies and some producers who rather tell you their side of the story , or their version of the trust.........Than tell you the whole story and their part in everything. It gets to me. I can't lie about that. Cause i'm not a bad person and i never fuck anyone over. i try to help people in the busness and life but i get casted the villian in a movie script.
I do care about what people think or hear about me ,but some peoples opinion ain't going to change or really ain't worth shit. I guess, people going to think and believe want they want to believe. I'm human and i have feels, and a life outside of this madness called porn. I'm actually just a regular counry boy from Durham NC. I hve the same problems, and issues as any other guy on this planet. Just my stress is business and personal. The business stress is from mostly dumb women that has no business sense. Some more concerned about my personal life then making money in this business. Ladies who feel we suppose to cater to them as if their are gilfriend then a model on the roster or one we are paying.
But i guess ladies feel that their the center of the universe, and feel that they doing us a favor. Maybe if you was paying us you might be half rtight. Naw, we paying you. Whether it's money or content, we helping you not you helping us. I have over 130 videos and that's with me getting two hard drives stolen. I got content, but i canfind another chick with no problem. We have to update your sites, promote, market, edit, and that just a few things i do for ladies i work with. But, yet many ladies had treated it like..... anybody could do it. Really!
I'm just getting shit off my chest so this shit won't eat my alive. This BC signing out. Tired of fucking typing.
